This Valentine's Day, when love is in the air, feeling secure and confident in being alone is the way to go according to three singles for whom Valentine's Day is no different from any other day. Dr Gihin Marasingha of Exeter University has even offered a mathematical formula for finding love in 100 potential suitors - but while some may feel the pressure to find someone special, this trio of singles do not. To them, the best type of love is self-love, and that is something that should be prioritized before any potential relationships. This Valentine's Day, Jared Melhado, Elijah Avella and Anissa Carby all have different traditions. Jared believes in the importance of being secure in oneself before engaging in any relationships, Elijah celebrates with his mother and Anissa Carby is embracing some much needed self-love. Spending Valentine's Day solo doesn't have to be a downer